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"A bold, compassionate, and powerful critique of Jewish circumcision.
With revealing new research, Goldman calls attention to the
unrecognized physical and psychological effects connected with this
procedure." -- MYRON SHARAF, Ph.D., lecturer and author, Department of
Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School

"Dr. Goldman has written a thoughtful, provocative book on a difficult
subject. He challenges us to reexamine long-held assumptions and to
reconsider the practice of milah (ritual circumcision) in light of
contemporary evidence. By giving us an insightful and carefully
documented exploration of a controversial perspective, Dr. Goldman
helps to foster a healthy and valuable dialogue within the Jewish
community." -- RABBI JONATHAN KRAUS, Beth El Temple Center
"For thousands of years we have ceremoniously circumcised our sons
without knowing or honestly considering how this practice affects the
child. In this book, Ronald Goldman presents us with compelling new
information that we can't ignore." -- RABBI BEVERLY LERNER,
psychotherapist

"Goldman's analysis of Jewish reluctance to discuss circumcision is
right on the mark. The collective Jewish psyche will benefit from
confronting circumcision anxieties and myths. This book will
facilitate that process and should lead to more than a few changes of
heart and mind." -- DR. RICHARD SCHWARTZMAN, psychiatrist
"If you are a liberal Jew, whether you see circumcision as the
sanctification of the covenant, as a ceremony marking you as a Jew, or
otherwise, this book stimulates deeper reflection about the practice.
As an aware, concerned, and introspective people, Jews must examine
whether our rites are right. We must determine if our ceremonies,
traditions, and practices reflect our innermost beliefs. Asking
ourselves and each other the question 'Why?' is one of the most sacred
tasks to which a modern Jew can dedicate himself or herself." -- RABBI
DONALD POLLOCK, pastoral psychotherapist, writer, and lecturer

"Jewish circumcision has traditionally been the province of males.
This groundbreaking book sheds new light on the issue by also
including women's views and feelings about circumcision." -- RABBI
LYNN GOTTLIEB, Nahalat Shalom Congregation
"The information in this book was the most comprehensive we found. It
was very useful in our decision not to circumcise. And after my father
read it, he said he could really understand our feelings. I am certain
that we made the right decision." -- AVIVA FURMAN, mother of
uncircumcised son

"Thorough, moving, convincing, and of staggering importance. I believe
this book will change Judaism for the better." -- MICHAEL KORAN,
Jewish educator
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Endorsed by five rabbis, Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish
Perspective is the first critical examination of the growing
controversy of male infant circumcision with special attention to
contemporary concerns of Jews.
Consider these facts:

Circumcision is not universal among Jews.
Jewish press articles have questioned circumcision.

A male child born of a Jewish mother is a Jew, whether he is
circumcised or not.
Jewish circumcision has never had anything to do with health concerns.

Circumcision conflicts with significant Jewish laws and values.
An Israeli organization publicly opposes circumcision.

The circumcision debate in the Jewish community is visible and
growing. An increasing number of Jews are choosing not to circumcise
their sons. Yet for those Jews who are expecting a child and who want
to explore their options, support for not circumcising their son can
still be relatively hard to find.
The purpose of this book is to offer a clear understanding of what
circumcision involves, to raise awareness about various concerns, to
encourage Jews to take another look at our assumptions and feelings
about circumcision, and to help resolve deep ethical, intellectual,
and emotional conflicts. Though many readers will probably be
expecting a child, the larger Jewish community may also recognize a
need for considering some of the questions raised here. The practice
of circumcision really concerns all of us.

According to the Council of Jewish Federations 1990 National
(American) Jewish Population Survey, "ninety percent define being
Jewish as being a member of a cultural or ethnic group." Less than
half associated their Jewish identity with religion. Only 13 percent
believe "the Torah is the actual word of God." According to the
survey, the general trend is away from traditional Judaism and toward
a nontraditional approach.
Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective is written from a
nontraditional viewpoint and is intended particularly for
nontraditional Jews. It addresses the main concerns that
nontraditional Jews are examining. This book is intended to stimulate
further discussion on this important subject. We owe it to our
children to educate ourselves and do what is best for them.

(For those who choose not to circumcise their son, the Appendix
includes examples of alternative rituals.)
FOREWORD

Generally, we circumcise our sons without really knowing the effects
of what we are doing. We prefer to think of circumcision as a trivial
matter. We believe that because it has been done for so many years by
so many, that it must be harmless. This book eloquently and
effectively questions these assumptions. For the first time,
Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective provides the Jewish
community with a clear, rational, and sensitive examination of this
practice. Dr. Goldman discusses all the aspects of Jewish circumcision
that would be of interest to most Jews.
I learned a lot from reading this book. In recent years researchers
have discovered much about infants and the effects of surgical
procedures on them. (Whether there is a religious ritual or not,
circumcision is a surgical procedure.) There is also evidence that
infant circumcision can have long-term effects lasting even into
adulthood. Dr. Goldman presents this new information in a lucid,
well-documented discussion.

Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective is not just the view of
one person. It contains the words of dozens of Jews, including rabbis
past and present, who question circumcision. There are many compelling
statements made by those who have witnessed circumcisions and have
been circumcised. Their words and feelings give us reason to pause and
reflect.
The author's psychological approach to the topic is especially
valuable. It is exactly what we need to take a close look not only at
ritual circumcision, but also at ourselves. With insight,
understanding, and compassion, this book answers questions we have
been afraid to ask, and asks questions that have not yet occurred to
us.

For some readers, the contents of this book will confirm what you have
felt for decades. For others, this book will challenge much of what
you believe. Whatever your feelings are regarding circumcision, this
book can affect you profoundly.
Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective speaks for many more of
us than we are willing to admit. It performs a great service to Jews
because it opens a long overdue discussion. I agree with Dr. Goldman
that questioning circumcision will ultimately benefit and strengthen
the Jewish community.

I highly recommend Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective
particularly to expectant mothers and fathers early in their pregnancy
so that they may have ample time to ponder its contents. I also
recommend it to rabbis who counsel on the merits of circumcision, so
they can offer a more informed perspective on this ritual.
Rabbi Raymond Singer, Ph.D. Neuropsychologist

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Publisher: Vanguard Publications (September 1997)

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ISBN-10: 0964489562

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24 of 26 people found the following review helpful: 4.0 out of 5 stars
Dr. Goldman gives voice to suppressed feelings, June 18, 1999 By A
Customer
This review is from: Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective
(Paperback) As a Jewish mother of a circumcised son, I didn't dare
question the unquestionable. At the time I didn't know there were any
Jews who did? However, the doubts were there, lurking under the
surface but I was embarrassed to speak about them. I heard about Dr.
Goldman's book and after reading it, I had the courage to acknowledge
that we as a people are being violated on many levels by this ritual.

Dr. Goldman points out in his book that there are many Jewish rituals
outlined in the Bible which have been abandoned in the course of
history. We are not a fundamentalist religion. We have an oral and
living tradition and our beliefs have constantly evolved. Indeed there
is cause to question performing uneccessary surgery on infants in the
name of religion or social custom. Part of coming to this realization
is also understanding that our American culture notwithstanding, it is
not a pathological condition to be born male. Immediate surgical
correction is not medically neccessary. Many might find it appalling
to compare ritual female circumcision in Africa to Jewish male
circumision but we are blinded to the similarities due to widespread
ignorance of the normal male anatomy.
Dr. Goldman touches on the religious, medical, social and
psychological aspects of this prodecure in a way that has never been
attempted before. I highly recommend the book to those willing to have
an open mind on something they may have always thought was a
non-issue.

26 of 29 people found the following review helpful: 5.0 out of 5 stars
Groundbreaking, Insightful, Courageous Book, January 18, 2000 By A
Customer
This review is from: Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective
(Paperback) Ronald Goldman's second book, Questioning Circumcision: A
Jewish Perspective, follows on the heels of his masterpiece
Circumcision: The Hidden Trauma. While the earlier book provided a
stunning, magisterial overview of the entire subject of circumcision,
this slimmer volume focuses on a more specialized analysis of the
procedure from a Jewish point of view. Goldman again succeeds at
integrating emotional, psychological,scientific, and humanistic
considerations while surveying the great diversity of attitudes held
toward this procedure among Jews. He reveals and meticulously
documents a number of surprising facts which contravene widely held
beliefs about the subject. Far from enjoying a consensus within the
Jewish community, circumcision has not always been practiced by all
Jews. As early as the 1840's, leaders of the Reform movement tried to
stop circumcision. In the 1860's, a group of sixty-six Jewish
physicians opposed the practice. The procedure as performed today in
the United States is much more extensive than the original
circumcisions, which merely removed the very tip of the foreskin.
These changes and conflicts suggest that the supposed Jewish mandate
for circumcision may be suspect.
Goldman discusses and questions a number of suggested benefits to
Jewish males of the procedure. Although many believe circumcision
necessary for Jewish survival and identity, under Jewish law, any
child born of a Jewish mother is a Jew, whether circumcised or not.

While the procedure is often suggested to promote connection with
other Jews, Goldman notes that the extreme discomfort and anxiety
often provoked by circumcision may actually inhibit connection.
Crisply summarizing some of the highlights from his earlier book,
Goldman notes that health claims are highly speculative at best, and
pain research has proven the extreme trauma suffered by the infant
boy. Behavioral changes have been documented to follow most
circumcisions, as boys become very irritable and interruption occurs
to parent-infant bonding and feeding schedules.
Goldman writes that unrecognized consequences of the procedure may
include promotion of a negative attitude to male sexuality. The
personal stories by circumcised men and by mothers and fathers are
quite moving. Some parents came to deeply regret their decision to
circumcise while others feel gratified that they reached eleventh-hour
determinations not to carry out the procedure.

Goldman takes the offensive later in the book, suggestion that the
Torah's commandment against assaulting another person actually forbids
circumcision. He notes that blind conformance to authority is
antithetical to Jewish values, and many potential benefits of
foregoing circumcision exist. An appendix contains Goldman's response
to traditionalist supporters of the procedure, which is drawn entirely
from passages in the Torah.
Future research needs to be carried out in accordance with his
insightful suggestion that many Jewish men may harbor anger toward
Jewish women due to their circumcisions, for which they may
subconsciously hold their mothers primarily responsible. From the
infant's perspective, Goldman notes, he is experiencing betrayal by
his mother at a most vulnerable time in his life.

Goldman includes several useful appendices including two mothers'
stories, a discussion of circumcision and anti-Semitism, and sample
alternative rituals in which the baby's foreskin is not touched.
Ronald Goldman has gifted us with his second tightly reasoned,
impeccably documented, and heartfully written book about a procedure
which should be of concern to all men and women who care about
children or society, whatever your faith may be.

20 of 22 people found the following review helpful: 5.0 out of 5 stars
An intelligent eye-opener, February 22, 2000 By A Customer
This review is from: Questioning Circumcision: A Jewish Perspective
(Paperback) Having chosen not to circumcise my son, and being an
observant Reform Jew, I found Doctor Goldman's book to be incredibly
instructional. He opens the door to a thoughtful introspection on the
question of circumcision in the Jewish world. A difficult, almost
taboo subject, we find that Jews, as a constantly evolving and forever
questioning people, need to look circumcision in the face and
sincerely question its validity. Circumcision continues to be
performed even if there are many reasons for one not to practice it.
Goldman's precise examination of circumcision brings us to question
not only the Historical and religious aspects of this tradition, but
also to look at the medical and sexual facts. Finally, the author
exposes the psychological and ethical consequences of such an act. For
example: are we ethically entitled to alter the genitals of our infant
sons? Have they given us permission to do so? What psychological
consequences can circumcision have on these infants? How about their
mothers? What do men who were circumcised as adults have to say about
the psychological and sexual changes they experienced? A professional
and thorought examination, "Questioning Circumcision, a Jewish
Perspective" is a brilliant analysis that one will find extremely
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1.0 out of 5 stars Interesting, but I think erroneous.
If there was one thing that Jews of ALL "denominations" practiced
until recently, regardless of level of observance, it was bris milah.
Published on December 6, 2006 by C. J. Landau

5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read for Jewish parents and parents-to-be.
Dr. Goldman provides ample and compelling proof that conscientious
Jews are justified in questioning circumcision, and leaving their sons
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